Continuing from an earlier post on Borrowed Advice and inspired by a heartbreaking piece I came up with a tentative checklist on questions to ask oneself before going in for a lifelong commitment:
- Will I still love you when you are too tired for a movie but not a booze party?
- Will I still love you when you catch a cold and demand 24-hr nursing care?
- Will I still love you when you insist on trekking with an 11-month baby?
- Will I still love you when your job is more important than mine?
- Will I still love you when you have eyes only for your phone screen?
- Will I still love you when your family is my family but mine is not yours?
- Will I still love you when you are sullen, surly, cranky, moody, and grouchy?
- Will I still love you when you are bald and fat?
- Will I still love you when you break my heart over and over again?
- Will I love you still?
- Will I?
Thanks for reading. Feel free to add your own questions…
At Mumbai’s swanky new airport
The lights were so bright and the floor so shiny, even the mirror image is pretty easy to read. Or is it?
Diamonds in the sky just the tiniest bit out of reach π
A cozy dinner for two. One of the rare occasions (in thirty years) where we had dinner all by ourselves (and emerged unscathed π


I know Cee said only man-made lights but I couldn’t resist this perfectly framed frilly sunset.